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Infertility & Pregnancy Loss

I Probably Won’t Come, But Please Invite Me Anyway

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Baby showers and other child-focused events can be painful for pregnancy loss parents. An invitation helps us feel wanted, even if we can’t attend.

August 17, 2020
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Infertility & Pregnancy Loss

Infertility is Like Waiting In Line and Watching Everyone Cut In Front of You

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I’ve been waiting for motherhood for nearly four years. I’m still waiting to be part of that club. It’s not an easy wait.

July 27, 2020
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Infertility & Pregnancy Loss

How to Let a Loss-Mama Know That You Remember Her Child

It’s the little things like this that let a loss-mama know you remember their child, and that you still recognize her for what she is—a mother.

May 3, 2020
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Infertility & Pregnancy Loss

Care for the Loss Mamas and Infertile Couples Around You By Not Making These Jokes

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Care for the loss mamas and the infertility warriors in your life by not making these types of jokes. You might find them funny, but to us they are hurtful. And there’s already too much hurt in the world right now.

March 30, 2020
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Infertility & Pregnancy Loss

TTC & Pregnancy Loss Mean Lots of Waiting

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That’s the hardest part about trying to conceive (TTC), you have to wait for it to happen.

March 9, 2020
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Infertility & Pregnancy Loss

Infertility and Pregnancy Loss and When You No Longer Fit In

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Having unexplained infertility after experiencing pregnancy loss is a lonely place to be. You don’t fit in with your friends who having kids and yet you also don’t fit in with the folks who don’t.

February 11, 2020
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Infertility & Pregnancy Loss

Is This the Year I Become a Mother?

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When you’ve experienced pregnancy loss or infertility, this is the question that rings in your head at the beginning of every new year.

January 14, 2020
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Infertility & Pregnancy Loss

It's Okay to Say "No" to Event Invites That Will Hurt Too Much After Pregnancy Loss

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Events like baby showers, first and second birthdays, and holiday parties with families of little ones can be really painful for people who have experienced pregnancy loss.

December 16, 2019
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Infertility & Pregnancy Loss

What due dates are like after a pregnancy loss

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Just because a pregnancy didn’t make it to its due date, that doesn’t mean the due date isn’t still a significant day to the person who was pregnant. 

November 8, 2019
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Infertility & Pregnancy Loss

How you grieve your pregnancy loss is a personal thing

It’s often said that every pregnancy is different. In the same way, every pregnancy loss is different. How do you grieve for a person that you never met? A person who doesn’t have a birthday? A person who doesn’t have a name?

September 9, 2019
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Hello, I’m Trisha

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I’m a reader, a writer, an editor, and a book coach. Through editing and coaching, I help women build their confidence and tell great stories.

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This book was absolutely delightful!

Thank you @harpercollinsca for the advance review copy.

THE ROMANCE RECIPE is a lovely romance between two stubborn, talented, snarky women: Amy, owner of Amy & May's, and Sophie, Amy & May's head chef. Both have some hang ups from life before this restaurant that cause some hurdles they need to overcome.

This book is both steamy and sweet. It has lighthearted and heavy moments.

CW: references to death by cancer, emotional abuse, coming out.

Available June 28, 2022

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Super exciting book mail arrived this week! I won a book bundle giveaway for my Little Free Library. :) 

These gorgeous and hilarious books are waiting for a kiddo in my community to discover them.

Thanks @littlefreelibrary

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I don't read a ton of historical fiction these days. But when I do, it's historical romance and goodness, I'm enjoying this series.

#CurrentlyReading #AmReading #RomanceNovel #RomanceEditor #BookCoach #Reader #Writer #HistoricalRomance
I'm doing it! Today, during Evie's nap, I restarted my @authoraccelerator book coach training course.

I first started the course on January 4, 2021 with the goal of reinvigorating my freelance developmental editing business into something more relational, more flexible, and more balanced so that I could create more authentic relationships with my clients and actually accomplish my own writing goals.

And then, I finally got pregnant again.

And holy moly, the brain fog mixed with the emotional ups and downs of pregnancy after multiple losses. Hoo-boy—my course had to take a back seat.

Now that baby girl is 8 months old and fairly consistently giving me solid crib naps, I feel ready to jump back in and pursue this dream.

I want to help authors plan, write, and revise their stories. I want to help bring amazing romance novels into the world. And I want to write my own too.

I want to do all that while raising a confident, kind, and hopefully bookish daughter.

Here's to being a mom AND being a writer/editor/coach. 

I likely won't make it through this course quickly. But I'm determined to complete it ( maybe even get certified), get my website/blog going again, and make this biz mine.

Thanks for joining me on this journey too, friends!

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I read The Roughest Draft on audio and ebook this week and loved it. (Also, how great that my library holds came available at the same time!)

This romance tells the story of a pair of co-authors who split up and hate each other but have one final book to write together. Of course, by the end they are a couple. *swoon*

One of my favourite aspects of this book is the structure. The story is told most in the present but with snippets of 4 years ago (the time when the split happened). The best part, this is the structure for the book the authors are writing too.

This book is a love letter to writing and subtext and friends to lovers.

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It takes me ages to finish a print book these days. I used to get through one every few days.

Audio and ebooks are my go to right now, and that's okay... But it still makes me a little sad because I want to read/finish my huge stack of new paperbacks so badly.

I'm about two-thirds through Kamila Knows Best and have started an audio and an ebook too for their convenience.

What are you reading this week?

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Porch reading while the baby naps. 💕

When you find a favourite author, you buy and read all their books! I adore @farahheronauthor  and am already loving this one — her reimagining of Jane Austen's Emma.

I loved her debut novel The Chai Factor so much that I took a writing class from her (I'm so grateful for online classes). 

If you're looking for a fabulous Canadian rom com writer, check out her books. 

(And no, this isn't sponsored. I just really enjoy her books.)

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#NationalRescueDogDay means snugging this good boy.

Adopting a rescue is a wild ride. You never know what your doggo will be like. Gizmo pup was most likely abused before he came to us. He's got some anxiety and reactivity but is also the sweetest thing once he's comfortable.

He's as in love with his little human sister as she is with him.

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Thank you @harpercollinsca for the chance to read and review WITH THIS KISS.

Swipe to see the intriguing premise. What would you do if everytime you kissed someone, you saw how they died?

I'm only a few chapters in and already intrigued by the characters and the setting. I'll share my thoughts on @the.storygraph when I'm done.

If this sounds like a book you might enjoy, check it out. It's available in bookstores now.

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